Yang Ting: I became to know her on the net even in the year 2005, when at that time, I was studying in the second year in Xi’an Fanyi University (XFU), I forgot how we met, maybe I searched on QQ and found her and add her to my QQ buddy list. We didn’t talk too much online, because she had a job in Hangzhou City for years, and she’s always busy. We hadn’t talked for a very long time, but she remembered me all the time, she sent me a message last week, and we talked a little, and I told her I want to see her photos, she agreed and sent me a photo above as well as her online album address and it’s password for more.

I downloaded some other of her photos from her online album and uploaded tem to my own Yupoo album, here’re more:

Yang is in Hangzhou city, the capital city of Zhejiang, I am also in Zhejiang, but in another city, and it’s not very far from here by bus, she once asked me to go to Hangzhou to drink tea with her… I hope so, maybe we canmeet each other some time later when I am back to Shaanxi during the spring festival.

Well, another girl, Miss Sannie Chan, was my customer, I started to know her around May this year. She took a job as a saleswoman in Shenzhen and bought some products from me,  that’s how I knew her online contact information.

Sannie is just a kind of girl that I like, she knows how to make up to be more prettier, and she is always smile, and I can also see form her photos she has a very good character and temper, anyone who’s together with her will be happy too. When can I go to Shenzhen city? It’s just a dream.

My girlfriend is a typical USTC girl in that she dates a white guy like me. Chinese girls who date and marry white guys are quite common in the U.S., but I have never ever seen or heard of a Chinese guy date a white girl.

So I have a couple of questions for you Chinese:

1) Why do Chinese girls prefer white guys so much? When I was visiting China with my white American friends, we were mobbed like rock stars by Chinese girls.

My girlfriend said the majority of her USTC female classmates are dating or married to white guys. Do Chinese girls think white guys have more money, social status, or have better sex than Chinese guys? No offense to Chinese guys, but through my girlfriend I know so many Chinese girls from P.R.China (not American Born Chinese) who explicitly say they prefer white guys over Chinese guys.

Chinese men: does that piss you off when you see Chinese girls throw themselves at white guys? What will happen when China’s gender imbalance cause millions of Chinese men to never be able to find wives, and so many Chinese girls are already dating or married to white guys?

2) How come there are no Chinese guy/white girl relationships? Are Chinese men not interested in white girls, or have you tried dating a white girl but was rejected? Again, no offense to Chinese men, I just want to know.

I don’t mean to offend anyone, I am just curious.

Ed Pultar
Georgia Tech alum

I also found this interesting video on YouTube, http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EpEipgoZ3Kk

[youtube EpEipgoZ3Kk]

After watched this funny video, I got the conclusion why Chinese girls marry white guys: I agree with Ed’s opinion, white guys have money and social status, girls like rich guys only, no matter what country he’s from, what nationality and what race he is, if you give her money, she wil do anything with you…

But for Chinese guys, for myself, I don’t like white guys, if I marry a white girl, my father and mother will drive me out of home, and can never be back again. I am a traditional Chinese man, I don’t accept a marrage with a wite girl or any other guys from other countries, this is our traditional culture, many many guys have same opinion with me, but for a Chinese girl, things are quite different in our eyes.